My family my life

I asked Jef if he still sees himself married if he had not met me.

I asked Jef if he will still be so giving and love another if he had not met me.

I asked if he will still be happy with his life if he had not met me.

Sounds familiar or not?

Women love to ask this kind of questions, I am not an exception either. Although deep down I know its really superfluous to query his feelings to me. But its kinda for fun if you know what I mean. Assurance and assurance.

When we were toddlers, our parents were our everything.

When we were in our teens, we listen to friends and rebel against everything our parents told us.

When we started dating, we gave all our love to our beau.

When we got married, it's our husband that we care the most.

When we have kids, we switched our attention to nurture our young till our golden years.

Our priorities were never our parents, and I am guilty.

I keep reminding myself that I shouldn't neglect my parents, because they are the ones that made scarifies for me, they are the ones that will always be there for me, they love me for who I am. They will not despise me and abandon me when I am down. Because of that I easily took them for granted that even though I did not have time for them they will still love me. WRONG, very wrong, they also need our attention, our love, they will also feel left out.

I will learn to distribute my love and attention evenly between my parents and my husband. They mean the most to me. Maturing my thoughts and get it right before I end up in remorse.

Pa, I love you. (Never tell him in person before, shy...)

Ma, I love you.

Darling, I love you.

Nothing else matters as long as I have all of you around me, I am so happy that we all live in peace and harmony! I won't disappoint you and will do my part as a filial daughter and good wife. This is my priority in life, I am getting old already cannot misuse my precious time and energy. After all, they will be the ones accompanying me throughout my life.

My message to friends, I love you all still but we have to concentrate in building our own lives, divert attentions and energy to structure our own future. Lets all work hard together in achieving what is best for our family.